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The Magic of the Approach

Have you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it – even if the magician isn’t that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it.

This brings me to an interesting way to approach women – by using magic.

Many guys will hang around an old haunt looking at all the great women come and go, but will never actually approach them. If they do approach someone, it’s usually after having watched her for quite a while, built up their courage (or drank enough of it) and then they approach. These guys also often fail simply because they don’t have a good ice-breaker – or any real game for that matter.

The benefit of learning a few magic tricks is that it both gives you a reason to approach someone and acts as the ice-breaker, all at once. It doesn’t even matter if you’re good at it or not! Most people will feel badly for you if the trick doesn’t go well and let you off the hook saying, “Well, at least you tried!”

In fact, you did. That’s the point of this approach. You put yourself out there and took a small risk. If you remember my article from last week, “The Three Keys to the Approach”, (http://beingaman.com/articles.asp?id=467) you’ll remember how important it is to stay positive, confident and upbeat all while putting yourself “out there”.

What’s really great about this approach is that it’s the trick itself that is “out there” – not you. Further, you don’t have to risk much as most everyone is interested in watching. You can approach individual women or groups of people – it doesn’t matter.

I’m not going to get into a bunch of magic tricks here as there are many good books on the subject. You can just learn a few fun ones and use them to approach anyone, anywhere.

Of course the magic is only the ice-breaker. You then need to be able to carry it somewhere. You can’t just make a coin disappear and then ask for a phone number! That is a good way to make your target disappear!

Instead, you have to establish some rapport once you’ve broken the ice, but at least the ice is now broken and the transition should be much easier. Keep in mind that you can also use a few magic tricks to build the rapport after the approach. Once you start talking to someone and get the ball rolling, throwing in a couple of magic tricks is a fun, safe way to draw in your target.

Best regards…

About the Author

Dr. Neder, known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, deals with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man’s perspective. Having written 3 books (“Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive. Vist http://beingaman.com for more!

The Magic of the Approach by Dr. Dennis W. Neder

How to Find and Buy Quality Cigars

Cigar is usually seen to become a part of individual’s lifestyle and determinant of one’s status in the society. It gained world wide popularity, made its own way through special occasions and valued by veterans, rich and famous personalities.

Cigar has three countries of origin and several kinds of cigars sold in cigar shop or store. It’s really difficult to find the best cigar that satisfies the cravings of a man to smoke.

Here are basic tips when you want to buy a cigar, be it online or at a cigar shop. Fresh cigar when pinched displays a tender wrapper and binder. While inspecting a box of cigar, discoloration of each piece should not be present as it might be a sign of a bad cigar. When talking about the size of a cigar try to consider its length and ring. A cigar with a seven inch in length with a bigger diameter will take hours to finish. While a five inch cigar and smaller in diameter is the best shot for a quick smoke after lunch. For the ring, the bigger the ring size the cooler the cigar smokes will be. The next will be the rating based on quality, appearance, construction and way it is smoked. Aroma or flavors should be in balance to give the cigar its overall taste.

A cigar with a rating of below seventy is not worth your money while those have a rating that ranges from 70-100 varies from having a good commercial property to classics which qualify for extra bucks from your pocket. When buying a cigar for a special occasion, be sure to purchase a good one. You can ask cigar shops for a best cigar they have or check on online cigar shop for recommendations. Don’t fall for the boxes with pretty colors for its contents might be disappointing. A $10 cigar box with flashing color might be as same quality to a box next to it that only costs $4. The best cigar will have the simplest box and simplest band.

A cigar with a maduro or natural wrapper tends to be sweeter tasting than wrappers that haven’t aged as long. You can buy cigars online to determine what taste of cigar suits you before buying a box. Inexperienced or novice smokers should start with smaller size cigars to build up the smoking skills before having the huge havanas which take an hour to smoke. For pro or experienced smokers a variety of cigar can be found in online cigar shop.

When you want to buy cigar online, determine the type of cigar you want before shopping. Explore for particular clues such as the type of cigar, the country where the cigars had grown or made, and the price that you’re willing to pay. Buy cigar samplers before buying a complete set for this enables you to try of cigar brands or styles of cigar. Samplers are mostly from different parts of the world that has been aged in various ways it is very helpful if you’re a novice. Buying of cigar is too costly; in determining your favorite cigars you could save some of your cash.

How to Find and Buy Quality Cigars / Edward F. Smith

How to Make Money with Free Blogs

Discover how you could start your own free blog and start making money online.

Blogging for dollars is quickly becoming a profitable venture. More and more people are finding out that utilizing a blog to generate a stream of income is fast, easy and cheap. There is plenty of information about using a blog in order to make money and you can be one of those people that are making money from writing information about their area of expertise.

The Various Ways to Generate Multiple Streams of Income
The most common way that bloggers generate income from their blogs is with Adsense, Chitika’s eMiniMalls, Text Link Ads and WidgetBucks to name a few of the more popular advertising options. You can also utilize BlogAds which is one of the first ad networks specifically geared to blogs.

Having a business to sponsor you allows merchants to advertise directly on your blog. There are more bloggers exploring the possibilities of sponsoring with advertisers. You may also find a business that will pay you to write specific content on your blog as well.

The Beauty of Affiliate Programs
Joining or beginning an affiliate program is one terrific way to generate a stream of income from your blogs. There are literally hundreds of affiliate programs you can explore. Partnering with businesses that are comparable to your area of expertise can be profitable for you both.

Seminars, Courses and E-Books
Many bloggers are beginning to develop digital assets that will support their blogs and add streams of revenue. Bloggers who are confident in their area of expertise are increasingly writing e-books and offering seminars and courses that are run by them. In this way you can pass along what you know to aid others in making money, and make a profit for yourself at the same time.

Exploring Opportunities from Blog Networks
With the increasing popularity of blogs, there has been a huge rise in networks that cater to bloggers. Blog networks can aid you in creating a profitable blog for yourself or help you to connect and partner with other bloggers. If you have a flair for writing, you can write for other blogs if you don’t have your own. Though it may be tough to find a writing job with some of the larger networks, there are always people looking for bloggers to join their network. They typically pay their bloggers using an assortment of models for payment. It is not uncommon to find a blogger that writes not only for themselves, but for other blog networks for the added income.

Bloggers for Hire
More and more businesses are seeing the advantage to having a blog for their goods and services. Many of the companies have people within their company to do their writing, but many more are looking to hire bloggers to provide them with interesting and unique content that will drive traffic to their sites. There are plenty of sites where you can find blog work if you are determined to find it.

Bloggers in the Print Media
Becoming more common these days is newspapers, non-blog websites and magazines that are looking for good writers. Bloggers have plenty of experience writing and many of them are proud to have published a book. Writing for print media is far more profitable than just writing for the internet. You can easily find yourself with your article published in a major newspaper or magazine.

Ask for Donations
It is not uncommon to find a blog with a donation button or a tip jar these days. One such blogger was able to leave his job and become a blogger full time all because of the donations from his readership. More bloggers are able to blog full time after they have conducted a drive for fund raising.

Flip Your Blog
Just as in the real estate market, there are buyers who flip houses for a profit; you can do the same with your blog. Not only can this be done on an individual level, but it can be done on a network level as well. If your blog generates a lot of traffic and has a good affiliate program in place, you can easily sell your blog to someone who wants to break into the business without having to worry about the set up.

Start Merchandising
There are a number of blogs and bloggers that have almost a cult following. These bloggers advertise branded merchandise for their readers to purchase. This can be anything from T-shirts, mugs or pens. Though the smaller blogs may not find this as profitable as larger blogs, it may be something you might want to look into.

How to Make Money with Free Blogs / Pawel Reszka

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
If you want to retire early then you need to learn how to make money online. Also, check out this cool system that made me $474 in one day. It’s called Easy Formula For Profits.