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The Magic of the Approach

Have you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it – even if the magician isn’t that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it.

This brings me to an interesting way to approach women – by using magic.

Many guys will hang around an old haunt looking at all the great women come and go, but will never actually approach them. If they do approach someone, it’s usually after having watched her for quite a while, built up their courage (or drank enough of it) and then they approach. These guys also often fail simply because they don’t have a good ice-breaker – or any real game for that matter.

The benefit of learning a few magic tricks is that it both gives you a reason to approach someone and acts as the ice-breaker, all at once. It doesn’t even matter if you’re good at it or not! Most people will feel badly for you if the trick doesn’t go well and let you off the hook saying, “Well, at least you tried!”

In fact, you did. That’s the point of this approach. You put yourself out there and took a small risk. If you remember my article from last week, “The Three Keys to the Approach”, (http://beingaman.com/articles.asp?id=467) you’ll remember how important it is to stay positive, confident and upbeat all while putting yourself “out there”.

What’s really great about this approach is that it’s the trick itself that is “out there” – not you. Further, you don’t have to risk much as most everyone is interested in watching. You can approach individual women or groups of people – it doesn’t matter.

I’m not going to get into a bunch of magic tricks here as there are many good books on the subject. You can just learn a few fun ones and use them to approach anyone, anywhere.

Of course the magic is only the ice-breaker. You then need to be able to carry it somewhere. You can’t just make a coin disappear and then ask for a phone number! That is a good way to make your target disappear!

Instead, you have to establish some rapport once you’ve broken the ice, but at least the ice is now broken and the transition should be much easier. Keep in mind that you can also use a few magic tricks to build the rapport after the approach. Once you start talking to someone and get the ball rolling, throwing in a couple of magic tricks is a fun, safe way to draw in your target.

Best regards…

About the Author

Dr. Neder, known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, deals with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man’s perspective. Having written 3 books (“Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive. Vist http://beingaman.com for more!

The Magic of the Approach by Dr. Dennis W. Neder

A Quick 3-Step System on How to Get a Girl’s Number

Many men out there think that stepping up to a woman and talking to her is the hardest step when approaching someone they are interested in. Being able to go up to a woman and talk to her without being nervous (or strange) is a huge accomplishment for many single men. What some men do not realize, however, is that getting the girl’s number is the only way to seal the deal. Some men may be able to talk to a girl in an amazing way, but are unable to seal the deal. Getting a girl’s number is important, and there are a few different tricks to know how to get a girl’s number.

#1- Do Not Ask Right Away

This point cannot be stressed enough when discussing how to get a girl’s number. Some guys who are somewhat nervous around girls have a habit of asking for their number right away. Think about this for a second; if someone random walked up to you and said “Hi, I hope you’re having a good time. Can I have your number?”, how would you react? Most normal individuals would have no clue as to what to do, and would simply laugh and ignore the request. If you are trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number, be sure to realize that asking right away can be death as far as getting a number is concerned.

#2- Have a Conversation!

Conversation is incredibly important. A girl will not give her number to someone who she does not know, or does not like. If you want her to get to know you, you have to strike up a conversation. Conversation is a must when it comes to trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number. By having a two way conversation with her, you can gauge her interest (as she gauges you). Gauging this interest can lead you to the perfect time in the conversation to ask for a number.

#3- Never End with a Request

Asking for a number at the very end of a conversation does two things; first off, it makes you look as if you have done this a million time. Two, it makes you seem desperate. Do not wait for her to say that she has to go before you ask her for her number. When of the most important things to do when trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number is to know that it does not have to end a conversation.

Ask her for her number in the middle of the conversation…and then keep the conversation going. Find a normal breaking point to ask for her number. Once you have gotten it, strike up another conversation. This will catch her off guard, and show her that you are not just walking up to every girl asking them for their number.

If you use these tips on how to get a girl’s number, you are easily more likely to impress a girl and seem original. When trying to get a girl’s number, originality and sincerity is key.

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A Quick 3-Step System on How to Get a Girl’s Number / Author: Scott Patterson

Speed Dating- its Fast, Efficient and Effective

The people of Boston are known for their hard work and busy schedule. Many professionals can barely find time to date and that is why speed dating comes in as a great solution to their dating life. Many people want to make friends but this becomes almost impossible for busy people. Dating can be nothing short of a nightmare to busy people who can not find time out of work to spend a little time with their dates. Its one missed date after the other and after sometime, your date can no longer understand you and leaves one frustrated and feeling rejected. You might even get a word or two reprimanding you on all the missed dates. Well, speed dating couldn’t have come at a better time.

If you are one of those people who can not simply find time out of their busy schedule you need not worry because speed dating is here and with it a little fun on the side. There are many local speed dating parties that you can attend as long as you subscribe to them. Thanks to speed dating meeting a new person and dating them has been made much easier. In speed dating, you can meet as many as 10 people in less than 30 minutes and within that time, determine among the ten people you have met who you would want to go out with and probably spend the rest of your days with.

This is how the speed dating dates work, the men go round the room from one woman to another and every time the whistle is blown, it means its time to move to another woman. Men and women are given score cards whereby they indicate if they want to meet with that person again. If your score matches with another, you get hooked up with that person. Speed dating it is fun at the same time because every time the whistle is blown you move on and you don’t have to be stuck with someone you don’t intend to meet ever again.

The speed dating dates can be arranged after work, on weekends or when you are free so that you don’t have to worry about anything at all and what is more is that you can speed date within your local area. This enables someone to concentrate on his or her date without having think of what they did not do. The good thing about this is that you can cancel a date without necessarily hurting the other person. This is a very interesting concept that is being adopted not only in the developed countries but also in Asia and Africa. The fact that one is meeting people one has never met gives it the taste and the excitement that goes with dating. Many have found husbands and wife in this form of dating. Its actually fun to those who are lonely and are looking for life partners. Its a practise that should be emulated by many

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Speed Dating- its Fast, Efficient and Effective / Author: Francis K Githinji

Occupation: Online Dating Expert
Francis K. Githinji Is A Online Dating Expert. His Latest Project Ovulating Women Shows How The Power Of Online Dating Can Be Harnessed Internationally and With Great Success, Or You Could Post Your Valued Comments On His Blog At Ovulating Women.
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